Dear New SuperSib,

You’ve just been thrown into a journey that no one wants to travel. It can be scary and lonely, but I want you to know that there are many of us who have traveled this road before and understand exactly what you are going through. You are not alone!

When my little sister got sick, almost all of my parent’s time and energy went into getting her better, as it should have been. I knew that they hadn’t really forgotten about me, but it was still a temptation to think so in their absence. You may feel that way at times, too, but remember not to mistake your parents’ preoccupation for neglect. They really do love you, and they would do the same for you if you were the one with cancer.

One of the hardest things for me to face was fear. I was afraid of losing my sister and seeing my family go through that kind of pain. I know that you will probably face your own fears as well. But don’t let them overtake you. Take advantage of the time you have with your sibling. Don’t withdraw from them out of fear of losing them. They need you right now, and every moment with them is meaningful and precious. You can do this. Even though you may be scared and confused at times, you have what it takes to be a true SuperSib! There is great hope for healing and cure. Make the most of every day you have together, and don’t ever give up!

Your fellow SuperSib,

Bethany :)