Dear SuperSib,

I am sad to hear your bother is sick. I know it’s hard for you, because my sister was sick just like him. I was younger at the time and very scared since I didn’t know what was happening. Sometimes I was jealous, because my sister was getting more attention and everyone gave her presents and special things. I felt left out and was mad about having more responsibilities and chores. It was silly, but sometimes I even thought my parents loved her more than me. The worst thing was feeling like there was nothing I could do to help my sister.

You might be feeling the same way I did and there is nothing wrong with that. Just remember your parents love you very much and you are just as important to them as your brother is. They just have to give him a little more attention right now. They have not forgotten about you and they really appreciate the extra things you do to help them. You are also important to your brother, and he loves you very much. He is probably scared too, and you are helping him by just being there for him and giving him lots of love and attention. I think you are very special and are being very brave right now.

Your friend,

Trey